Is it sugar or spice?

 

According to The Standard Media,campus setting is viewed as a breeding ground for reckless lifestyle choices, depression, suicide and and murder among many other illness.Why?. Relationships or maybe friendship we can say that it's simply killing our young people slowly . Engaging into a relationship isn't bad at all but the problem is having unhealthy relationship this can destroy you badly.

Unhealthy relationship as many could understand it is full of disrespect,lack of care, lack of fulfillment and lack of boundaries.what I always ask myself is this is it possible for a lady to like a MN without actually have feelings for him? 

 I can say yes and my confession has evidence.i met this guy when I first joined campus and we happened to be close .He helped me in many areas and made sure that my life was made easy in campus.Little did I know that he had feelings for me ,,,okay fine as it's said two people of opposite sex can't just be friends without either of them having feelings for the other.But I couldn't think of that.

Do you know that this guy was hurt to an extend of commiting suicide when he realized that I had no feelings for me and this being not enough he got a transfer to another university.There are some men who misinterpret this closeness and think the lady is attracted to them and to their shock they find out otherwise and this makes them end up being hurt .

Now the worst part of it all is that the lady may try getting into the relationship with the guy simply because she's pitying him.This is the worst thing never to do .Why ? It's because the moment you enter into that relationship your spirits and souls won't be genuine but you'll be doing it out of "helping my friend, maintenance of the friendship".

This is it now and I think people should be open to each other .The friendship should be clear too especially when the opposite sex is involved.JUST BE HONEST .